Skip to main content

The Authoritative Guide to Private Money for Real Estate Investors by Jay Conner


***Guest Appearance

Credits to:

https://www.youtube.com/@jerryscarlato 

“Becoming Resilient, Private Lending, and Your Money Mindset with Jay Conner”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-w-a6JPweUk&t=96s

Real estate investing often requires substantial capital, and navigating the funding landscape can be daunting for both seasoned and new investors. In the recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, Jay Conner joins Jerry Scarlato in the Good Wolf Project podcast where they delve into the nuances of raising private money—a strategy that can redefine your approach to real estate investments. 

Understanding the Difference: Hard Money vs. Private Money

In the world of real estate, financing options are plentiful but can often be confusing. Jay Conner explains a common misunderstanding between hard money and private money. Hard money typically comes from brokers who pool and lend funds from individual investors, charging high interest rates and fees. This traditional route involves jumping through numerous hoops, including credit checks and financial disclosures, which can be time-consuming.

Conversely, private money is a more direct transaction, where a real estate investor borrows money from an individual, cutting out the middleman. Here, the investor sets the terms, interest rates, and payment schedules, providing a more flexible and tailored financing option. This approach eliminates the need to borrow from traditional banks or hard money lenders, offering more autonomy and speed in closing deals.

Navigating the Challenges with a Resilient Mindset

Real estate investing is not without its hurdles. During the conversation, Jerry and Jay highlight the importance of resilience when facing financial setbacks. Jay shares his experience during the 2008 financial crisis when he unexpectedly lost his line of credit with a local bank. This pivotal moment pushed him towards private lending, leading to a successful reevaluation and expansion of his business model.

The key to overcoming challenges is adopting a proactive mindset. Rather than seeing obstacles as insurmountable problems, Jay emphasizes responding constructively and connecting with the right people who can facilitate solutions. This mindset shift from “victim” to “victor” is essential for navigating the volatile waters of real estate investing.

The Power of Community and Mentorship

Another critical element of success in real estate investing is surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals and mentors. Jerry and Jay underscore the transformative impact of joining mastermind groups and engaging in communities that foster collaboration and learning. Jay recounts how mastermind groups have expedited his success by providing access to a wealth of experience and insights from industry peers.

Learning from seasoned investors and sharing experiences can significantly decrease the learning curve, preventing costly mistakes and leading to more informed decision-making. As Jay aptly puts it, “What got you here today will not get you there tomorrow.”

Building a Sustainable Strategy for Raising Private Money

To successfully raise private money, Jay advises a strategic approach focused on education and relationship-building. By teaching potential lenders about the benefits of private lending and offering them a secure and appealing investment opportunity, investors can attract capital without resorting to high-pressure sales tactics. He demonstrates the power of seamless communication and structured programs in cultivating a network of private lenders eager to invest.

Prospective investors can start small by hosting informational luncheons or one-on-one meetings to share insights about private lending programs. By educating others about investment opportunities, investors can build trust and secure funding that aligns with their goals.

Conclusion: Embrace the Journey

The conversation between Jerry Scarlato and Jay Conner offers valuable insights into the world of raising private money in real estate. By understanding the differences between funding options, adopting a resilient mindset, and leveraging community and mentorship, real estate investors can navigate the complexities of financing with confidence. Embrace the journey, redefine your strategies, and open the door to endless possibilities in real estate investment.

10 Discussion Questions from this Episode:

  1. What are the main differences between private money lending and hard money lending as discussed by Jay Conner in this episode?
  2. How did Jay Conner’s experience during the 2008 financial crisis influence his approach to real estate investing and private money lending?
  3. Discuss the concept of “who not how” as mentioned in the episode. How might this mindset shift benefit an entrepreneur?
  4. Jay Conner emphasizes the importance of being resilient in business. What are some key examples from the episode that demonstrate this point?
  5. What is the significance of separating the private money program from specific deals when discussing potential investments with private lenders?
  6. How does Jay Conner utilize private lender luncheons to attract potential private money lenders, and what are the key components of these events?
  7. Jay talks about the importance of responding to events rather than reacting to them. How does this approach impact decision-making in a business context?
  8. How does Jay Conner’s philosophy of not asking for money directly align with his overall strategy for raising private capital?
  9. What role does personal connection and trust play in Jay Conner’s method for acquiring private money, as demonstrated in his conversation with Wayne?
  10. Reflect on Jay Conner’s emphasis on education and teaching about private money opportunities. How does this align with the values and goals of his business model?

Fun facts that were revealed in the episode:

  1. Jay Conner’s first introduction to private lending was after he lost his line of credit during the 2008 financial crisis, which led him to raise a couple of million dollars in less than ninety days.
  2. Jay doesn’t pitch deals; instead, he educates people about private lending and lets them express their interest and potential investment amount.
  3. Private lender luncheons have proven to be successful for Jay, with one event raising $969,000 without even pitching specific deals.

Timestamps:

00:01 Real Estate Investment and Resilience

06:04 Understanding Self-Directed IRAs

09:13 Financing a Business Acquisition

11:59 Entrepreneurial Financial Strategy Pitfalls

14:54 Purposeful Impact on Real Estate

19:52 Self-Directed IRA Private Lending

23:13 8% Fixed Return Agreement

26:53 Dominating Small Markets Successfully

28:07 Unexpected Credit Line Closure

30:40 Exploring Private Money Strategies

34:28 Investment Rate Negotiation: 8% Offer

38:03 Private Money Strategies for Real Estate

42:29 Proactive Solutions to Financial Crisis

44:56 Business Success: Resilience & Guidance

48:12 Masterminds Revolutionize Real Estate Success

52:03 Private Money Strategies Podcast







Private Money Academy Conference:

https://www.JaysLiveEvent.com

Free Report:

https://www.jayconner.com/MoneyReport

Join the Private Money Academy: 

https://www.JayConner.com/trial/

Have you read Jay’s new book: Where to Get The Money Now?

It is available FREE (all you pay is the shipping and handling) at

https://www.JayConner.com/Book 

What is Private Money? Real Estate Investing with Jay Conner

https://www.JayConner.com/MoneyPodcast

Jay Conner is a proven real estate investment leader. He maximizes creative methods to buy and sell properties with profits averaging $67,000 per deal without using his money or credit.

What is Real Estate Investing? Live Private Money Academy Conference

https://youtu.be/QyeBbDOF4wo

YouTube Channel

https://www.youtube.com/c/RealEstateInvestingWithJayConner

Apple Podcasts:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/private-money-academy-real-estate-investing-with-jay/id1377723034

Facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/jay.conner.marketing

Twitter:

https://twitter.com/JayConner01


Pinterest:

https://www.pinterest.com/JConner_PrivateMoneyAuthority


Listen to our Podcast:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/2025961/episodes/16803179-the-authoritative-guide-to-private-money-for-real-estate-investors-by-jay-conner

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

The Type Of Deal Dictates The Type Of Money

https://www.jayconner.com/the-type-of-deal-dictates-the-type-of-money/ One of the best strategies that Jay uses when doing real estate deals is that he lets the type of deal dictates the type of money that he will use on a certain deal. He is not restricted to using private money only on all his transactions. He also utilizes hard money investors when needed. For more valuable information click on this link and watch the complete episode:   https://youtu.be/-5dWNxAtiFE  – “Going Where the Money is with Jay Conner & Mike Zlotnik ” Private Money Academy Conference: https://www.jayconner.com/learnrealestate/ Free Report: https://www.jayconner.com/MoneyReport Join the Private Money Academy:  https://www.JayConner.com/trial/ Have you read Jay’s new book: Where to Get The Money Now? It is available FREE (all you pay is the shipping and handling) at https://www.JayConner.com/Book   What is Private Money? Real Estate Investing with Jay Conner https://www.JayConner.com/Mo...

There May Be A Low Inventory Of Houses But There Will Always Be Motivated Sellers #shorts

  Private Money Academy Conference: https://www.JaysLiveEvent.com Free Report: https://www.jayconner.com/MoneyReport Watch the Full Interview at: https://youtu.be/DvzQu3sfXMs "Building Wealth Through Real Estate: Insider Perspectives with Chris Prefontaine & Jay Conner" Chris Prefontaine is a 3-time best-selling author of Real Estate on Your Terms, The New Rules of Real Estate Investing, and Moneeka Sawyer’s Real Estate Investing for Women. He’s also the Founder and CEO of SmartRealEstateCoach.com and host of the Smart Real Estate Coach Podcast.  Chris has been in real estate for almost 30 years. His experience ranges from constructing new homes in the ‘90s and owning a Realty Executive Franchise to running his own investments (commercial & residential) and coaching clients throughout North America.  Today, Chris runs his own buying and selling business with his family team, which purchases 2-5 properties monthly, so they’re in the trenches every single week. They...

Wholesaling vs. Wholetaling in Real Estate | Brett Snodgrass & Jay Conner

https://www.jayconner.com/wholesaling-vs-wholetaling-in-real-estate-brett-snodgrass-jay-conner/ Jay Conner and his guest Brett Snodgrass go deep-dive into the difference between Wholesaling vs. Wholetaling. Watch this short video now to learn more. Brett Snodgrass is CEO of Simple Wholesaling and has been a full-time real estate investor for 10+ years. He specializes in wholesaling, wholetailing, creative financing, and scaling a business from a one-man-band to an amazing full team running 100s of deals per year. Brett’s amazing team buys and sells 300+ properties per year and builds passive streams of income by creating 50+ creative financing deals per year. In a five-year timespan, Brett has gone from a one-person team to a full-time staff of 10+ team members and has tripled his deal flow. For more valuable information click on this link and watch the complete episode:  https://youtu.be/nGLOKBWxC18  – “Finding Purpose And Success with Brett Snodgrass & Jay Conner” Priva...