When it comes to raising private money in real estate, there’s a hidden truth separating the strugglers from the superstars: It’s not just about knowing the numbers or finding the right deals—it’s about being seen, being known, and becoming an authority that attracts capital. This message is at the heart of a compelling interview with Nicky Billou on the “Raising Private Money” podcast, hosted by Jay Conner.
In a world overflowing with noise and competition, how do you stand out? According to Nicky Billou, you don’t wait for greatness to be handed to you—you claim it through visibility, storytelling, and authentic connection.
Attention Creates Opportunity
“Attention creates opportunity.” These four words, repeated by Nicky Billou, resonate as a rallying cry for investors looking to shake things up. Private lenders want credibility and confidence—when you become visible and authoritative in your field, you magnetize opportunities. It’s about occupying the space of ‘the expert’ in the minds of your network.
So, how do you accomplish that? The answer isn’t fake hype or shallow self-promotion. Instead, it’s about real, sustained credibility.
Leveraging Podcasts for Authority and Trust
One of the most practical strategies discussed by Nicky Billou is the power of being a guest on other people’s podcasts. Podcasts offer long-form, nuanced conversations—perfect for showcasing your story, expertise, and values. It’s a virtual stage where you get to build relationships with both hosts and audiences.
Nicky Billou cited how even public figures have used podcasting to gain millions of new supporters by connecting with previously untapped audiences. That same mechanism, when applied by real estate investors, unlocks fresh networks of potential lenders.
There’s no need to be a celebrity or a best-selling author to get started. Nicky Billou shared stories of clients who began with no platform and built credibility by simply showing up, telling their story, and serving the audience. It’s the personal adversities and lessons—the “real expertise” forged in life, not just your job title—that create a point of connection.
Tell Your Story—Own Your Why
Jay Conner pressed deeper, asking how investors could use their personal stories, even if they haven’t written books. Nicky Billou demonstrated by opening up about his own background: a Christian child fleeing revolution in Iran, whose family risked everything for freedom. That core story shaped his mission and message. Real estate investors, Nicky Billou argues, can do the same by framing their journey as one of resilience and purpose.
The process starts by embracing your adversities and letting them inform not just what you do, but why you do it. People invest in passion and vision as much as in returns. Minimizing your dreams out of fear of being “pushy” does a disservice not only to you, but to potential lenders hungry for inspiration.
Practical Steps to Build Authority
For those starting from scratch, Nicky Billou suggests a two-pronged approach:
- Book Yourself on Podcasts: Utilize platforms like PodMatch to discover shows where your story and expertise can be a valuable fit. Don’t worry about being perfect—practice builds confidence and fluency.
- Invest in Your Growth: Triple Your Investment in Personal and Professional Development. Learn from mentors, join masterminds, and read voraciously. As Jim Rohn said, “Don’t wish things were easier, wish you were better.”
Final Thoughts
Greatness in real estate investing—and in life—doesn’t wait for perfect timing or someone else’s permission. It’s claimed through visibility, connection, and consistent action. Step out, tell your story, and become the trustworthy authority that private lenders are searching for. Don’t wait for greatness. Claim it, one conversation at a time.
Ready to raise private money like never before? Start telling your story today—and watch the opportunities find you.
10 Discussion Questions from this Episode:
- Visibility seems to be a recurring theme in this episode. Why do you think it is so essential for raising private money in real estate investing?
- The episode mentions that many investors minimize their dreams when talking to potential lenders. What are the risks of not sharing your passion openly?
- It’s argued that adversity is central to developing expertise and authority. How can real estate investors use personal adversity stories to build trust with private lenders?
- Podcast guesting is recommended as a powerful tool for building credibility, even for the ‘average’ investor who doesn’t see themselves as a thought leader. Why do you think this strategy works?
- Based on the experience shared in the episode, what are the three main intentions someone should have when appearing as a podcast guest? How do these intentions help forge new relationships?
- How does storytelling help real estate investors establish authority and rapport, according to the example shared from personal life in the episode?
- The episode references a high-profile political example to illustrate the power of podcast appearances. What lessons can real estate investors take from this story to improve their fundraising efforts?
- What actionable first steps are suggested for brand-new investors wanting to build authority from scratch? Why might platforms like Pod Match be useful for them?
- The importance of investing in personal and professional development is emphasized. How do you relate to the advice about tripling your investment in yourself, and what impact could it have?
- How do you interpret the closing remark that “private money does not go to the smartest investor—it goes to the most prepared, consistent, trustworthy, and the one with authority”? What practical steps can investors take to embody these qualities?
Fun facts that were revealed in the episode:
- Nicky Billou has been a guest on 850 podcasts since May 2022, forming relationships with the hosts of almost every show he’s appeared on.
- Nicky Billou is an immigrant from Iran who survived the Iranian revolution and a Molotov cocktail attack on his childhood home, ultimately settling in Toronto, Canada.
- Nicky Billou is the author of 11 books—including two New York Times bestsellers—and hosts “The Thought Leader Revolution,” a podcast where he’s interviewed notable guests such as Jack Canfield, John Maxwell, Barbara Corcoran, and more.
Timestamps:
00:01 Mastering Authority to Raise Capital
04:32 Boost Visibility Through Podcasts
08:19 Life Adversities Define Expertise
10:05 From Warrior to Business Leader
13:41 Building Relationships Beyond Podcasts
19:15 Creating Millionaires for Legacy
22:00 The Harm of Charlatan Marketers
25:26 Coach to Confidence and Success
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